We find ourselves once again in a moment when the world feels unstable. G. Michael Hopf’s quote captures this reality: “Hard times create strong men; strong men create good times; good times create weak men; weak men create hard times.” For men who follow Jesus, this cycle is not just a pattern; it is a call to action. We have some potent examples.
Joseph, sold into slavery by his brothers, thrown in prison for years, yet climbed to second-in-command of Egypt. He turned betrayal and hardship into power. He stayed sharp, forgave, and seized every chance. He interpreted dreams that saved the region from famine. Pure resilience.
David, chased by King Saul like a fugitive, hiding in caves while dodging spears. He built an army from outcasts, waited out his time, and became Israel’s greatest king-poet, warrior, all from chaos. Patience and loyalty can turn a mess into legacy.
Then there’s you. You have experienced both prosperous and challenging times, raised families, and faced significant obstacles. Now, in these turbulent times, your role is to break the cycle of weakness and lead with purpose. Here’s how:
Forge Physical and Mental Strength
Hard times demand resilience. Strengthen your body to stay sharp. Physical discipline enhances mental clarity. It helps fend off the lethargy that saps your resolve. Mentally, anchor yourself in prayer. Jesus calls us to humility, not ego. Stay grounded to avoid the complacency that breeds weak men.
Lead Through Mentoring
Strong men contribute to good times by investing in other men. Take the time to mentor other men in your life. You will be surprised to discover how many men in your circle lack strong, godly influences. Share the hard-won lessons you have learned.
Strengthen Your Marriage
Turbulent times can test marriage vows. Weak men walk away; strong men commit even more. Love your wife as Christ loved the church—that means sacrifice love that builds her up. If you have children, work to reclaim family rituals. These practices create moments of joy and stability and counter cultural drift.
Build a Fortress
You can’t stand alone. Confess your struggles with other men and pray together. The cycle Hopf describes can only be broken when men refuse to settle for complacency. Your strength now will help prevent even harder times in the future.
Break the Cycle
Hopf’s quote serves both as a warning and a challenge. Weak men allow hard times to persist. Strong men can turn the tide. You have scars—use them. In turbulent times, Christian men do not just endure; they lead, love, and rebuild.
Dr. Ron Geisler 